Guys can be difficult to figure out, but I suppose they feel the same way about girls. This whole gender misunderstanding is really annoying. How will I know if I really upset a guy? Everybody's different too! I mean, what upsets one person, might not upset another. I hate having to be cautious when I'm trying to be myself, but at the same time, I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. I guess that's why I get jealous of people that say they don't care what other people think. They must have a lot of confidence. Its just hard to keep up this balancing act, you have to please so many people in your life, your parents, your relatives, your friends, your teachers, your peers, your co-workers, your boss......is it selfish to put yourself at the front of the line? I want everyone to be happy and okay, but what do I want for myself? Why do I have to worry about other people, can't I just try to focus on my own thing? I doubt these people care about me the way I do them. I need to stop focusing on other people, if I keep doing that, of course I'll be unhappy because I keep comparing myself to them. I need to set goals and realize them for myself, not anyone else. I've got to stop worrying so much about other people. I've got to learn to take care of myself and learn to grow up, otherwise my parents will never see me as an adult, time to get serious. I can't look down on myself anymore, or I'll go nowhere, I need some confidence damnit! The problem is, where do I find it?

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Yeah, I pretty much have the same problem.

My parents STILL think I'm a child.
They tell me, Oh.. you depend on us too much.

Well... If they taught me how to be a better person from the getgo, then I would be a totally different person right. More self-confident.. & less insecure.

They support me more physically, but mentally, not so much.
» ShaShaBoo on 2007-07-11 04:03:01

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*totally different person right now.
» ShaShaBoo on 2007-07-11 04:03:43

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